How To Meet Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Here are a few easy to follow steps you can use to meet women that makes the process of meeting women fun and easy!

I have a question…

(And you have to be honest with me here!)

Is it hard for you to meet women? Is your fear of meeting women paralyzing you from taking action, causing you to continue to be lonely and alone?

If so, don’t worry. I’m going to give you some incredible bits of advice you can use that will help you meet great women, and help you to take control of your love life and overcome your fear!

You may be under the false assumption that meeting women is supposed to come naturally to you. After all – we’re men! Aren’t we just “supposed” to know how to do this naturally?

Wrong.

Listen: despite what other people might tell you, men are not “born” automatically knowing how to meet and attract women. (I wish that WAS the case, but unfortunately, its not.)

Knowing how to meet women is something you LEARN, not something you’re “born with.”

You have to LEARN how to talk to women, just like you have to learn how to speak out loud, or walk, or do math.

Meeting women is a SKILL. And you have to LEARN skills in order to develop them.

So if you currently don’t know how to meet women, don’t worry, there is NOTHING wrong with you! You just haven’t learned enough to make meeting women something that’s comfortable and easy yet.

Sadly, many guys have a fear of meeting women that keeps them locked up inside their house on Saturday nights. And most of them will never take the steps they need to truly overcome that fear.

This is because they underestimate the power that this fear has on their lives! And they justify this fear of meeting women by focusing on all of the bad things that could happen.

There are some guys out there who have such low self-esteem that they think every girl they approach will either reject them, laugh in their face, or insult them right off the bat. Maybe they’re afraid of being publicly embarrassed, or the slim possibility the girl has a jealous boyfriend who will beat them up!

If this sounds like you, then I have news for you: You are actually TRAINING yourself to NOT approach women! You’re giving yourself reasons to give into your fears and not take any action.

In other words: You’re practicing FAILURE.

Understand – most of those things almost never happen in the real world!

Those fears often come from experiences men suffered in junior high or middle school, when they were starting to become sexually aware and got rejected a few times – or they saw stuff like this happen on TV, and they think it actually applies to their own life.

It is highly unfortunate that so many men let irrational fears shape their beliefs and attitudes about how to meet and date women that they keep to this very day!

However, there are men out there who grew up with the good fortune to have POSITIVE experiences with girls early on in their development. These experiences gave them a better outlook about what is possible and set them up for success with women as they matured.

But here’s some good news – even if you weren’t a lucky “early bloomer,” you are still able to take control of any fear you may have about meeting women. Just because you didn’t have early success, doesn’t mean you can’t still be extremely successful with the ladies!

You will need to examine and change your current beliefs and attitudes that are currently holding you back from having real success with women, and re-learn what you “think” you know about how to meet women and start training yourself to meet them the RIGHT WAY.

This is something that is extremely difficult for most guys to do. It’s easy to say you want to learn how to meet women, but the hard part is actually taking the action necessary to do so. You need to actually WANT to change!

You don’t want to be one of those guys who says, “Next time…” to himself whenever he sees an attractive woman. Because for those guys, every time is the “next time!”

If you see a girl you want to meet – say SOMETHING. Even if you don’t know what to say, just take a chance.

It doesn’t matter what you talk about – ask her for directions. Ask for her opinion on something. Playfully tease her about something she’s doing.

Or better yet, pay her a genuine compliment and be curious about who she is!

Don’t get hung up on what you’re going to say, just go over and talk to her. Don’t give yourself time to talk yourself out of it. Make the decision to act and follow through. (If you need to, memorize a few interesting stories about your life if you need something to talk about.)

Don’t try and measure success based on if you got her phone number or a date. Just the simple act of approaching a woman and talking to her makes you a winner, because you did something that 80% of the other men out there wouldn’t have done! And the more you can do that, the greater your chances of meeting that one special woman.

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