Pick Up Lines That Work – How To Start A Conversation

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

“I lost my number, can I have yours?”

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

This simply is not true.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

It is as simple as that, merely to engage a woman in conversation.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

Remember, if you do not begin a conversation, you cannot do much more.

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Good pick up lines help you do this.

It is natural to be nervous when going out to meet women, being unsure what to say; however, most often you miss your chance to meet a good woman, simply because it takes to long to think up something to say.

It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.

But don’t be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

“I know you from somewhere, don’t I?”

All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you’re being clever when you say this, but you’re not.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why is this?

These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

So to give you an example, you could say something like: “Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it’s wierd for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman’s perspective on this.”

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:

1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships

The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.

“Do you believe in astrology?” (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)

“What is your sign?” (No matter what she says – be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

“Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type.”

I could go on, but you should get the idea.

The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

This is how you begin conversations.

From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.

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