The Art Of Flirting – How To Flirt With Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Let me ask you a question…

Do you have a favorite woman, yet despite all your romantic efforts, you remain just friends?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it was because you did not know how to flirt properly with the woman.

Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you do not do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.

What is the importance of flirting?

The answer is simple: Flirting is the process by which sexual tension is created!

When there is no sexual tension within your interactions, there will be no attraction. When you do not have attraction, this places you in a different category.

Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.

You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.

Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.

Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.

Mixed signals are what this is.

You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious

Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don’t realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.

You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.

MISTAKE #2: They Are Not Obvious Enough!

If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.

MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Themselves Too Seriously

Flirting is fun and light when done properly. When men begin adding serious romantic gestures with flirting, the sexual tension begins to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what’s the right way to start flirting?

You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren’t trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

This communicates your interest, it’s insinuating sex, but you’re not coming outright and saying it. It’s implied, and it’s fun, and its light hearted.

Another example would be, if a girl says something raunchy or naughty to you, you might respond with something like “Stop trying to seduce me, you vixen! You know I don’t put out on the first date.”

Consider how this works.

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that is building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction.

The real fun begins at this point.

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