Top 5 Dating Mistakes For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

When you think of “dating” a woman, you probably think of “dinner and a movie,” am I right?

Going out and doing things with a woman while you get to know one another is dating.

Consider for a moment that this is a misconception about dating.

See, most guys use the concept of “going out” with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.

Let’s go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when “dating” a girl…

Mistake #1: Dates are only to make a good impression.

Lots of guys think they have something to prove on dates. They “have to get her to like me!” So they’ll try and take her to fancy places to show her a memorable time, and they’ll try and brag about themselves to come off as important.

Mistake #2: Buying your way into the heart of a woman.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!

Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn’t mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical “dinner and a movie” thing, that won’t necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romantic interest.

Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!

A date with no spark of chemistry is boring. Although many men become nervous while on dates, they often interrupt themselves by becoming boring. They often talk about their routines while displaying little to none of their distinct personality. This is going through the motions with hopes of not messing things up.

Mistake #5: The patterns of failure.

Finally, many men get a certain idea about dating in their heads – how things are supposed to be – and they follow that rigidly. They take every girl to the same restaurant. They ask her the same questions. They take all the fun and spontaneity out of the interaction.

What does dating a woman mean?

Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!

See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.

This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

Consider talking about your passions and shared interests, this will aid you in determining what hopes and dreams she holds dear.

Take care to keep away from boring questions that involve work rather you might consider rephrasing your questions while adding interesting fun while on a date. As an example, you may ask her, If you were not held back by the laws of time and space and could do anything, what would you do.

Just have fun and enjoy yourself!

You might want to tell her a joke, even if it is not the best, just so you can both enjoy a good chuckle. Take care to guide the conversation towards the things she finds interesting, this helps you find out who she is. Be curious.

Above all, do not be to shy to bring up romance.

Although many men shy away from approaching the subject of relationships while on a date, you should build the intensity of attraction by building toward that.

Be a little wicked by flirting and joking with her, as this will encourage and build the attraction she has for you and then you can move on to the next level of your relationship.

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